a general secretary

For three years, i carry my position as general secretary of neighbourhood community (rukun warga). Let me explain how this can be happen. In the sunday morning, me and my children walking around and meet with Mr. Djoko. He is a Chairman of Neighbourhood Community. He led about six or seven Neighbourhood Cluster (Rukun Tetangga). Mr Djoko still jogging when he ask to me about position of general secretary. And I said OK.

My wife look weird with my quick respond. "Are you sure become a general secretary ?", she ask to me.

"I'm busy this years, therefore, i'm not reject that offer ", my diplomacy.

"Actually, in my mind, you will be more busy than now....".

"No... next month the election of RT leader will be held. I don't want become the RT leader. I think you also like that. Because of this I must accept offering from Mr Djoko. If I as general secretary, I runaway from RT candidate ".
Now I see my wife smile. She looks understand about my trick.

Do you know about job of general secretary ?

He must do the documentation of letter from anywhere. Including letter from residents and neighbours. The residents need citizenship letter. Must be signature by Chairman, and then legalisation by General Secretary. It's a simple jobs. But the problem is, many people don't bring the copy of document. This makes a organisation don't have a documentation.

The Chairman had no idea how to make this documentation. Every people with their own wishes bring only one sheet document, and then need to mark their letter. And go home. A Chairman sign his signature in their letter. But, he don't have a copy.  It's clear, this is my jobs.

Before me, the general secretary always say to all people to copy their document. But nobody hear this. The people still bring one sheet document. For this, do i must have my own copy engine ? It's up to me. Only one that I must do. It is a digital camera. I have pocket camera that ready to take a picture from all letter that I must legalisation. Only this. Every letter, should be had a copy as digital data storage in this camera. And the job is done. Finish. Don't think too complicated. [] haris fauzi - 28 Apr 2014

queue maker

Afternoon, busy hours. I'm on a building elevator with some others. Down from seventh level, i need down to ground level, some people too,... also a 'woman in right side'. She makes a call phone. "Please take me on lobby terrace. Hurry up... I will arrive on a while". I think she needs to be picked up by someone. She makes a call phone to her driver who waiting in parking area.

From seventh level, ..6..5..4..3..2..1.. , elevator takes more time than bring a car from a park area to lobby. This my analysis. Because when all of elevator passenger down to ground level, i see a queue of some cars. Lead from queue is black wagon. And 'woman on right side'  fast walking through people throng, go toward black wagon, at the same time calling her driver,"... an elevator too slow...". And then she jump into black wagon.

You know, when queue of cars happen, possibility some car will turn a horn on. Noise will occur. I think, that woman not so wise. Why she calls her driver when on elevator ? Why she doesn't call when she was already on lobby ? Is she don't want to wait ? Maybe, a 'woman on the right side' is a busy one. But, however, what she had done -- to call a car before she on lobby-- and it turns out she was late, is not a good attitude. Of course her delay make a queue of many cars, -- remember, it's a busy hours-- and noisy by horn. Not a good thing when making a queue at busy hours. Moreover, this building is a hospital. What do you think ? [] haris fauzi, 28 jan 2014.

my little daughter problems

My little daughter is a problem child. This statement out from a psychologist. Cahaya -name of my daughter- go to school since last year, 2012. As I told at my blog, in first year, cahaya always go to school accompanied with her Mom. Everything alright because the first years is playgroups class. After that year, the rule of a school said that student must go to school without anyone. And Cahaya does not happy with that.

In the middle of 2013, i think in August, my wife invited by school to talk about this problem, and my wife discuss with a psychologist. A psychologist is a school's partner. By this facts, I and my wife agree with his suggestion. He suggest for implementing by forced. It's popular as "terapi paksa". A psychologist says that this treatment have no risk. Whatever kind of risk. And always success. But, i'm not sure with this.

At the end of this case, I turn off this treatment because i'm not deal with the risk that happen in third day. In first week, my daughter become grumpy girl, like hitting, morose, hate all about school, hate her Mom, and does not want to socializing. I must stop therapy. My wife confused. Because --with the roll of time-- the psychologist step by step ignoring his statement. He always argued that the risk that happen is not his fault.

This day, when I write this blog, is fifth month since I broke the therapy. This day also fifth month since I implement "holy verses therapy" as my mother teach me. I read loud enough verses from surah al-Hasyr and at-Taubah. I read after subuh beside Cahaya's bed.

After five months, one by one of problems is gone. Cahaya become cheerful and friendly with her Mom. She start to play with her friends. So she success hold her hand from hitting somebody. But, she still have traumatic about school. Everything about school, especially teacher, uniform, and classroom. Traumatic that happen in five months is a serious problem. Occurred to my mind to sue psychologist, but my wife looks not agree with this.

What can I do now ? My wife invites cahaya go to school when holiday or after school hours, at the other school. Cahaya had out from existing school. Go to school when holiday or after school hours means no teacher, no classroom, no uniform. I think they go twice a week. I'm not sure about how many times they gone because i'm at my office at same time.

Clear in my head, slowly, Cahaya's passion to play in school garden had growth. If they go with my second daughter, cahaya more happiest than alone. But, until now, Cahaya still doesn't want go to school normally. This problem is very very serious, but I still thanks to God because my daughter left her five problems although it still lags one problem behind. Alhamdulillah. [] haris fauzi - 22 jan 2014